Upon leaving grad school, my husband and I ran smack dab into the two body problem. We were mathematicians
graduating in 2012 in a world still recovering from 2008. Mathematics faced skepticism about its relevance.
Common sentiments included: the world only needs soo many mathematicians. Buffet didn't mince words.
It was an interesting time.
The expectations were we would be lucky to get one job offer each across the whole of the US.
So where could we live - together? Long distance relationships were fairly common at the time. But,
we're romantics. We made a list of all big cities we thought there was even a chance of both of us getting jobs
{Chicago, NYC, San Francisco, and two others I can't recall} and then pounded pavement. We made competitions
out of how many resumes we could hand out and how many free pens we could get at career fairs. To
this date, my husband still accuses me of tanking my NYC options ... to make sure we ended up in San Francisco.
I'm glad to see the world turning. The math we dedicated ourselves to learning was instrumental
to social networks existing and the waves of advances from AI. One
of my favorite anchor points for how much AI has progressed was the success benchmark in 2012 was
counting coffee mugs in the grad students' kitchen. I've grown since then. It's nice to see math
has grown since then and continues to lead the way on what is possible. One branch of mathematics
I want to see more of the potential realized in is Operations Research. So far, we've been using
it behind the scenes for industrial processes ... but what if we could use it more openly to help
people optimize their lives? In fact, the math behind Lat Long Labs is based on math
from Prof Williamson's Operations Research Classes.
In many ways, this heatmap is my love letter to all the power couples, dual-income households,
navigating the two body problem. I hope this illuminates where you can go to be together and excel in your careers.
Solving the "two-body problem" for two people trying to find jobs in the same location involves a mix of career flexibility, strategic job searching, negotiation, and sometimes, compromise. This issue is common among couples or partners in professional fields, where both individuals are seeking to advance their careers without having to live apart. Here are several strategies that can be helpful:
Finding a solution that works well for both parties often requires creativity, flexibility, and patience. It's important to regularly revisit the discussion as careers evolve and new opportunities arise.